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Ashley Salazar Update

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I’ve been reading the comments about Ashley Salazar for a couple of days, and I’m just now getting around to writing something about this situation.  While details are still a little sketchy, I’m going to piece together what I know.

On March 25th, Ashley told Radar Online that she was pregnant with her second child.  She shared pictures of herself and her boyfriend of two years, Justin Lane, and mentioned a due date of November 22nd.  That would mean that at this time, she was around 5 or 6 weeks pregnant at the time.

On April 12, Ashley tweeted to her fans asking for prayers.  Instantly, people were saying that Ashley had miscarried her child.  Ashley then did a follow up blog post on April 13 explaining to fans why she was asking for prayers.  She is quoted as saying:

I asked for prayers on Twitter the other day, but no I did not miscarry.  Me and Justin went and got an ultrasound and I am supposed to be 8-weeks, but according the doctor, I probably ovulated late because of my birth control and the sac is only measuring 6-weeks. There was no baby seen, but that’s because I may be way too early to tell anything.  I go back on Monday to find out what the issue is.  That is why I am asking for the prayers.

Ashley had hinted at a possible blighted ovum, which means that the egg continues to grow, but there’s no baby inside.  In cases where a woman has a blighted ovum, she often times miscarries very early on in the pregnancy.

On April 23rd, Ashley hinted that something bad had happened when she tweeted that when she was ready she would share the news.

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On May 4th, Ashley shared a photo on Instagram of a bathroom at a bar that had a nursing station and a changing table.  She captioned the picture with, “Just in case I’m pregnant by your 21 birthday Shawn, we will come here. What bar has a changing table and nursing station?!!”  I think this was a pretty clear confirmation that Ashley is no longer pregnant, but the fact that she was at a bar led some people to think that maybe she wasn’t ever pregnant to begin with.

While I can’t confirm or deny rumors about Ashley’s second pregnancy, I can provide you with information that seemed strange to others.  One thing that struck some people as odd was that Ashley was so excited about this second pregnancy, and was routinely uploading belly pictures, tweeting about shopping for bigger clothes, and sharing updates, but the instant anything went south, she began ignoring comments from her followers.

Another thing that I find funny is that shortly after the miscarriage, Ashley was out drinking and partying at a bar, planning on getting pregnant again in the near future.  While everyone copes with a loss in their own way, it seems like Ashley might not be coping in the way that most people think she should.

If this would have happened a year ago, nobody would be questioning Ashley’s motives, but after Nikkole Paulun’s alleged stillbirth last July, it’s hard for me to not be overly cautious about things like this.

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  1. Poppy says:
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    We live in a world where it’s easier for a girl like Ashley or Nikkole to get money by selling a trashy story to a magazine than it is for a girl to get a grant for college.

    • Ibathmykids says:
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      Trashley

    • nr says:
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      Did Nikkole ever actually get paid by Radar? last I heard they were “investigating” after Sam broke the story about the fake miscarriage but I never heard anything more. I guess it’s safe to assume she did, considering she was able to pay for the boob job.

      • Red says:
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        I could be wrong, but I think Radar asked her to provide a death certificate.

        • Roast Beef Kaiser Sandwich says:
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          They asked Nikkole to provide a death certificate and she said she decided not to because her mom said it would be bad for her emotional health. Because having thousands of people bash you for faking a still birth sounds SO much healthier. I swear if these girls enjoy lying so much they should really learn how to come up with better lies.

        • L0 says:
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          Emotional health, huh? Well that is truly some BS if I’ve ever heard any.

    • Dustin's Workload says:
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      Hit it on the nail!

  2. Sara says:
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    I hate saying this, but I would not be surprised if she was faking it.

    She seems crazy enough to do something like that, but if she really had a miscarriage, I am very sorry for her.

    But…let’s face it…who goes partying like that just after a miscarriage? I know I wouldn’t.

    If she’s faking, shame on her.

    • Creepy husbands says:
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      Jenelle does.

      • Sara says:
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        You’re right! I forgot about Jenelle…

      • nathanscontrolissues says:
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        I’m not sure if I believe Jenelle had a miscarriage, but regardless, her affect is totally off in most emotional situations.

        • River says:
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          I don’t believe Jenelle ever miscarried either. And being that Trashley and Jenelle are friends, it fits that they’d fake it almost the exact same way. Birds of a feather fake pregnancies together.

        • Rae says:
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          Now we just wait for Salazar to announce that the baby’s name was going to be Ashton.

    • Red says:
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      Not defending her, but after my first miscarriage lets just say I made a lot of bad decisions that night to push what happened out of my mind. Then again though, this was at my house with a close friend and included lots of crying. Not going out to a bar or a club with a group of people. I’m not sure I believe her.

      • L0 says:
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        It’s really sad, and I don’t understand it at all, but some girls just do not care. Like Nikkole and Jenelle. My ex and I were close friends years before we dated, so I also knew his ex-girlfriend very well. Between the ages of 17 to 20 this chick had 4 abortions, didn’t care who knew and each time afterward went on being happily demented, as though nothing ever even happened. Still makes me sick when I see her around town.

        • kimmer says:
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          …and then good, deserving people have trouble conceiving, or even worse, can’t carry a baby to term. Gotta love how that works, huh?

        • Red says:
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          Yep Kimmer. I’m one of them. I can conceive apparently. Carrying is the issue. Now we aren’t even sure I can conceive anymore. I go into a deep depression for about 48 hours every month I get that negative pregnancy test. My fertility isn’t going to be around long because of a previous illness I had. What I would give to have a baby of my own…. Pretty much anything. I’ve had to take a break from this show because of it. Seeing girls like Jenelle pop up pregnant then continue her habits just makes me hate how unfair things like this are. Not wanting the sympathy, just my input. Thank you for feeling for us<3

    • trashtvismyguiltypleasure says:
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      You wouldn’t but this is Ashley Salazar we’re talking about. Not saying she didn’t fake it but I wouldn’t take that as the reason why lol

  3. ohrly says:
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    There are a few lines of thought I’ve had:

    1) the whole thing was to prolong her few moments of fame and completely untrue which is why she was off drinking etc after the miscarriage

    2) This did in fact happen and she’s trying to be proactive and positive and went out with friends to make herself feel a bit better – no harm in that

    3) why tweet “I’ll share when I’m ready” then give the news away on another public social networking platform? This is what smells the most fishy to me. It’s very dramatic, this whole “I don’t want you to know but I’m going to tell you anyway” bull is very odd.

    I’d really rather think thought number 2 was true, but there are just some really odd things about her behaviour that I personally can’t make sense of. Only Ashley knows what’s really true and whatever her truth is I hope she can live with it

    • Rae says:
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      The whole “just in case I’m pregnant by your 21st birthday” comment just seems like a passive aggressive way to hint at vagueries regarding the status of your current “pregnancy” and to entice people to ask what happened that made her seek solace at a bar or whether or not she had a miscarriage and is already trying again…so she can change her baby in a bar during a friend’s 21st birthday party. Completely normal.

  4. leelee says:
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    She wants attention badly. She’s desperate for it. Get a life girl

  5. mickk says:
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    Everyone deals with things in a different way. I’m not saying she didn’t fake it, but I’m not saying I think she faked it either. I miscarried myself and for me I wanted my life to continue as normal as possible. I still went to work the next day, and sure I had my rough moments where all I wanted to do was cry, but I shut my office door. Her carrying on with her life may just be a way to carry on and not dwell on every little detail. It’s hard enough to go through without people criticizing you for every little move you make.

    • willwalk4cheetos says:
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      Exactly. When I miscarried I had to have a d & c, on Black Friday. I had my husband drop me off right after the procedure to go shop with my mother and sister because I just wanted my mind on something else. The last thing I wanted to do was sit at home and dwell on it.

      • L0 says:
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        Right, however, shopping with family or going back to work are what I consider to be healthy ways of getting through something rough like that. Nobody wants to hide away and dwell on sad things forever, you have to get up and move on. These girls, these young MOTHERS, simply aren’t equipped with the maturity or brains to deal with seemingly anything in a healthy manner. Not to mention their enablers.. cough*nikkolesmom*cough. That, is very sad to me.

    • mypaperheart511 says:
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      When I had my miscarriage my husband was deployed. It happened and I had my final for my summer class and I went and a friend in class asked me how I was feeling (she didn’t know about it yet) and I broke down and ran from class to go sob in the bathroom and my professor came to find me and I broke down and told her everything and she told me to go home and she’d send me the final to do later. My best girlfriends took me out driving around town blasting music and ended up spending the night couple days later.

    • Rae says:
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      I once read a venting post about a girl I know losing/miscarrying a “chemical pregnancy” and the doctor who told her about it acted like she was insane to be disappointed or upset and he treated her like crap. Her solace? “I’m going to go pick up some vodka and a fucking McFlurry.” Everyone deals differently and I say do whatever helps you as long as you’re not say…live tweeting your “miscarriage” and then going shopping and clubbing with your ex.

  6. TheSnarkLark says:
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    One thing that stood out to me is that she said she could be 6 weeks because her birth control caused her ovulation to occur at a different date. For some reason I thought she said before they planned this pregnancy?

    Anyways — miscarriages are far more common than most people realize. As many as 75% of pregnancies end in miscarriage but are mistaken for a slightly late period. This is exactly why I roll my eyes when someone shares their pregnancy news at 4 weeks (meaning they literally just missed a period and conceived 2 weeks ago). It is standard to wait until you hear the heartbeat at 9 weeks or after the first trimester at 12 weeks.

    The drinking is being blown out of proportion. Did she go out and get trashed and arrested? No. She was bummed out and went out with a few friends to get her mind off a really hard time in her life. I probably wouldn’t do the same – but I can’t say it is out of line or anything.

    Or maybe she made it up. IDK and IDC… I mean, at least she didn’t fake it for 9 months. I’m looking at you Nikkole.

    • A says:
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      Yeah the birth control comment confused me too. My best guess is that she meant that because she had JUST got off birth control, the doctor said her cycle was affected and she ovulated late because. That would make the most sense in the context.

  7. Wipes or Weed says:
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    Long time lurker, first time poster. Just wanted to say THANK YOU to Megan for this wonderful site… you really keep me entertained during the long workday! Congrats with finishing your degree.

  8. KAIL'S SECOND CHIN says:
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    I have never liked Ashley. She’s always been SO rude and full of herself. I guess she’ll do anything to try and stay relevant.

  9. KailsGrimace says:
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    I think she was telling the truth. If she wanted attention she would have milked it a little longer for sympathy. If it was a blighted ovum, then a miscarriage never happened because she wasn’t pregnant, right? I can understand feeling disappointed, but how long do you expect her to mourn a child who never actually existed?

    Of course I might be completely misunderstanding this situation…

    • River says:
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      A blighted ovum is still a pregnancy, it just stops progressing. I had one, and my body never expelled the loss so I had no idea there was anything wrong. A blighted ovum usually occurs because the chromosomes don’t form properly when the egg is first fertilized, so the baby would likely not survive outside the womb. That doesn’t mean there was never a pregnancy.

      Also, I thinks it’s incredibly insensitive to loss moms to say the child ‘never actually existed’ because I personally mourned for months over the loss of my first pregnancy. The child exists in our heart and your mind even if they stop developing in the womb.

      • Rae says:
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        I’ve never heard of a blighted ovum before now so I wasn’t really sure of what all it entailed. I think maybe KailsGrimace was under the impression that it is something like a hysterical pregnancy where there truly ISN’T a pregnancy, the woman’s body just mocks the symptoms of an early pregnancy. I’ve never been pregnant as far as I know. (Early miscarriages happen often but I guess I would never have known I was pregnant, not one of those crazy bitches on TV that are 9 months pregnant and crap their baby out in an ER toilet because they didn’t realize they were gestating.) Therefore, I have no idea what it’s like to know your pregnant, emote whether it be excitement or fear or what have you and then lose the baby, no matter how far along. It’s just not something my brain can truly comprehend because I’ve never experienced it. I can try to empathize with what I THINK it would affect me, but I don’t think a woman can truly know what it’s like until it unfortunately happens to them. I just try to give people the benefit of the doubt. Sometimes people are callous assholes about miscarriages, but I think maybe Grimace just equated it to a hysterical pregnancy.

        • River says:
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          There are way to many people that don’t have the forthought or even the common decency about this particular topic, my pre-op doctor included (she went on and on about her two little ones at home and how it was SUCH a good thing that I wasn’t having a baby at sixteen as though I were relieved or something) so I get a bit yippy about it. It’s a hard thing to understand and it’s not something you can relate to without having been there, and it’s hard to know what to say or how to act about it but really it’s best to not make assumptions – especially ones like that. Honestly I didn’t mean to be rude I just think it’s best to keep in mind that even though Trashley is one of the more insane members of the 16 and pregnant alums, loss touches a lot of men and women and it’s not an injury that ever stops being sore to the touch.

  10. Marie Elisse says:
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    Are we forgetting jenelle here? I still don’t believe she had a miscarriage with courtland, girl was tweeting and drinking the same day…………..

    • Ibathmykids says:
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      I honestly think she counted those abortion pills as a miscarriage because she’s a whiny whore that needs attention

      • Red says:
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        Wouldn’t be surprising, but that episode was filmed way after her disgusting little stunt :\

        • Rae says:
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          It’s possible her January “miscarriage” was an abortion pill and she played it up like she had this tragic miscarriage, live tweeting the whole thing and posting picture of bloody bathroom trash. (Like literal trash, not Jenelle standing in a bathroom.) And then another abortion in June. Maybe that would explain her “been there done that” attitude about the abortion that was filmed as part of this season. But mostly I think she’s just an uncompassionate, selfish assbag.

        • Red says:
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          Agreed. I just think her pregnancy never existed. Too much hard evidence proved her wrong. But hey, could have been. I just think she wanted to sell a quick story for drug money.

  11. Ibathmykids says:
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    Lol he’s so out of her league. She looks like she could be related to Farrah with her horseyness. (I know I know im a bitch but I can’t stand her.) Does anyone else think that the way she comes in and out of collies life is unhealthy?

    • Youre a Bad Person Mommy says:
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      I don’t know. I’ve never found him attractive. He looks dirty and also looks like he’s been doing a few too many drugs.
      Apparently I’m alone though because everyone is always commenting on how hot he is.

      • TheSnarkLark says:
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        I agree – I think he happens to look good in THIS picture. Where he is covered by her body and not showing his teeth…But you can look good in one picture and still be a troll. In her episode and other pictures he looks dirty, short, and trashy to me. Maybe people just think he is hot when comparing him to the other teen dads — which is not saying much. Being the least ugly of a group of uglies does not make you hot!!

      • Ibathmykids says:
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        I think he has pretty eyes but def seems like an asshole which is an unattractive quality, not to mention he is tainted by her lmao. I just think she’s a lot uglier than he is, and I think she knows that too. That’s why she constantly posts pics of the both of them. She’s so obviously insecure. The little girl Callie is adorable and looks more like him thankfully. (Again, I really dislike her lol). Hated all the fat shaming comments and I’m 125 lbs 5’4 (so average) but wouldn’t go and insult someone for their weight. They are both honestly disgusting people.

        • Kails Sweet 16 says:
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          What were these fat shaming comments? I’ve seen people mention she did it but never got the story. Once she posted a picture in a bikini and her tampon string was hanging out. Tragic.

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        He’s ugly for leaving her during the first pregnancy.
        He’s just as ugly for going along with her in this pregnancy.
        They are hideous for leaving Callie and then coming back when she’s “funner” and more independent.
        They’re retarded for having her call them Mommy/Daddy.
        They deserve each other.

        • Ibathmykids says:
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          Hell yeah. She has little respect for herself if she’d get back with a guy who does that

        • Rae says:
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          How does that make Callie’s adoptive parents feel? Do they just feel awkward about enforcing boundaries about THEIR child? I know they’re Salazar’s aunt and uncle but I can’t think of anything more unsettling than the erratic, self-obsessed teen bio mom to my kid having her call her Mommy. She’s not her Mommy. Her family isn’t doing her any favors by enabling that behavior.

        • Kails Sweet 16 says:
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          He didn’t leave her during her pregnancy he was actually in jail but they didn’t show that on her episode. I agree they’re stupid though.

    • Roast Beef Kaiser Sandwich says:
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      Yes. It is unhealthy for her to come in and out of Callie’s life. She is not Callie’s mom. She chose her aunt to be Callie’s mom. And she already says over and over that Callie cries and wants to go home with “Ashley Mommy” whenever Ashley leaves her. That is not healthy for a child, and it won’t get any better as she gets older.

      • A says:
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        Well my niece used to cry and miss me and ask to live with me and to go home with me everytime I left the house. Young toddlers do that to family members that they are excited to see and are disappointed when they go. But since Callie does know that Ashley is her “birth mom” it could create a different emotional void and sense of abandonment as she gets older. Kind of like when people have mostly absent fathers who barely come around and then they leave it affects the child deeply because they know it isn’t just a relative or a family friend. I hope Callie doesn’t feel that way but she might.

        • Rae says:
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          I’m in no way saying that if you give a child up for adoption, you can’t have more later on and decide to raise them yourself. But Callie’s going to see that episode one day and see how she was ultimately given to her aunt and uncle to be raised because her bio mom struggled with simple tasks like doing her dishes to keep the baby bottles clean and well stocked and buying diapers. And it seems like Ashley is hell bent on making more babies with the same guy who treated her like crap BECAUSE she got pregnant with Callie, so realistically, she’s probably going to have another kid sooner rather than later and Callie’s going to wonder why her mom couldn’t wash her bottles so she gave her away and took her back and gave her away again and then basically wreaked havoc on her little brain by confusing her as to who her parents actually are.

      • Ibathmykids says:
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        That’s what I’m saying it’s going to mix her up so bad. The thing about open adoption is it’s great for teen moms that don’t want to completely have the child out of their lives, but still want to give it a better life, but it sucks for the child because I feel like it mixes them up.

        • A says:
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          Yeah it can be complicated. A big reason that open adoption is the norm now is because now everyone who grew up in the closed era is able to speak up and encourage change. Many adoptees struggle with identity when they don’t know their origins. So these days it is generally believed to be best for adopted children to know and/or have a relationship with their natural family. But as you suggest, that could have a different set of struggles for children as they grow up. Adoption at this scale is less than a century old and it’s evolving majorly every decade and lessons are being learned… open adoption is a new chapter and I guess society will have to work out the kinks as we go.

    • A says:
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      Nearly every adoption situation involves some type of unhealthy aspect. Open adoption is the norm now so pretty much every private infant adoption that happens involves the original parents “going in and out of their life”. but I mean Callie lives 10 hours away so Ashley has to plan visits. I don’t really consider my long-distance aunts and uncles as “coming in and out of life” because they could only visit a few times a year. It’s the context. But yeah there’s clearly some unhealthy aspects going on but what do you expect. Adoption isn’t easy for anyone involved. Some cope better than others. Ashley was clearly never confident in her decision and can’t come to terms with things.

    • abortion based lube says:
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      She isn’t pretty. He’s mediocre but he can’t be a decent person if he’s with her. She’s very insecure. Just a rotten human.

      • Ibathmykids says:
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        My thoughts exactly. No matter how much weight she loses there is still the issue of her face. Callie is a cutie pie though, looks more like him thankfully lol.

  12. Roast Beef Kaiser Sandwich says:
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    I’ve never been a fan of Salazar as some well know, from her body-shaming posts to her constant, unnecessary bashing of her “fans.” And as much as I’m extremely skeptical that she faked this whole thing to make a quick buck, I think she may have just been desperate to be a mother. Now she’s keeping her mouth shut because she’s embarrassed that she released the news so quickly (and people called her out on it and warned her it was a stupid idea). Girl. Needs. Therapy. A lot of therapy. She was already butthurt that she had to stop drinking so I’m not applauding her for going right back to her party phase while planning to get pregnant as soon as possible. I’m sorry, a responsible, logical adult doesn’t do that. Downvote me all you want for that statement, but she is immature and self-medicating – not a great start to any pregnancy. I really hope someone talks some sense into her. IF she faked this whole thing, well, then I guess what they say about “you are the company you keep” is true(I’m lookin’ at you, Nikkole).

    • A says:
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      I just made a comment saying stuff pretty similar to this but I think you articulated it better, especially about self-medicating. Years ago she made a blog post about drinking when she was like 18 I think? Less than a year after having Callie. She said she was drinking every single day and she was worried about how she couldn’t control how much she was drinking. She basically said she was drinking to help cope with her painful emotions about her daughter and the adoption. She deleted the post probably like 20 minutes afterwards because I think she regretted admitting it. Then as far as I’m aware she didn’t really talk about drinking much until around her 21st birthday when it was now legal for her to drink. But I’m sure she didn’t really stop drinking between 18 and 21. I think even on a recent instagram picture she made a comment that she drank everyday before she got pregnant again last month. Girlfriend needs to seek solace and strength from somewhere other than a mans arms and/or a bottle.

    • TheSnarkLark says:
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      She does need some therapy, that is for sure!

      This responsible, logical adult will be enjoying glasses of wine in Frankfurt and Moscow next week while actively trying to conceive with her husband. I tend to be a worry wart – I make my own soaps and cleaning products because of chemical exposure and we eat all organic, along with all sorts of other things people tease me about. We never drink — but “When in Rome”, ya know? The thing is, it can take up to a year to get pregnant for a healthy woman, and it would be so draining to put your life on hold while waiting. Having a drink while trying to conceive does not make me an unfit mother… I think that is a really awful thing to imply.

      Drinking in the first 9 weeks of pregnancy can not hurt the baby because the amniotic sac has not yet formed. Some OBs even recommend light drinking to relax a little and live in the moment. The only risk would be possible dehydration. Of course binge drinking is a bad idea, but a few servings of alcohol during a night out is not binge drinking. Maybe I misunderstood your comment, but you may want to actually learn some things about fetal development before forming such strong opinions.

      I am super snarky and can not stand Ashley Salazar.. but I hate some of the misinformation on this site.

      • Roast Beef Kaiser Sandwich says:
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        Ashley is not doing any “light drinking,” she’s admitted to drinking heavily ever day. Not to mention the few friends we have in common can attest that Justin also drinks heavily. So yes, you misunderstood my comment. I didn’t call her an unfit mother for having a couple drinks, I’m calling her an unfit mother because she’s self-medicating – often.

      • Roast Beef Kaiser Sandwich says:
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        And I appreciate you trying to educate me but everything you said isn’t news to me. But good luck to you and your husband and I hope you have safe travels!

      • florry says:
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        I shall also be in Frankfurt next week! On business sadly, but hey that’s pretty crazy. Woop, teen mom junkies on tour!

      • ohrly says:
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        Would like to clarify to any idiots out there: just because you haven’t hit 9 weeks of pregnancy doesn’t mean it’s safe for you to go out and get plastered! It’s recommended you avoid alcohol in pregnancy for a reason!!

  13. classier heels says:
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    “I’ll release the news to the highest bidder, er… when I am ready”

  14. Sterilize Jenelle says:
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    I have no problem with her going to a bar if she isn’t pregnant. I have a problem with it because she has a kid at home who she should be taking care of. And tweeting about being excited because the bar has a baby changing station. Seriously?

    • Roast Beef Kaiser Sandwich says:
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      She doesn’t have a kid at home technically. Callie lives with her adoptive parents. Ashley just comes in and out of her life a lot.

      I don’t have a problem with her drinking if she isn’t pregnant either, but she is actively trying to get pregnant. What is the point of going out to bars, smoking weed and drinking all the time if she already pulled the goalie? She’s still acting like a college freshman but putting on this “I’m ready to be a stable mom” facade. It doesn’t make sense to me.

      Maybe I’m a prude for saying this, but if I was planning to be a mother I’d be proactive about making sure my body is healthy and ready to carry a child.

      • Sterilize Jenelle says:
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        Ohhhhh yeah, I forgot she was the one who gave her baby up for adoption. I retract that part of my statement hahaha. But yeah, I still think it’s tacky and a little unnerving that she was excited about the changing table and you bring up a good point; if you’re TRYING to get pregnant, why go out drinking in the first place?

      • nr says:
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        Catelynn was posting about getting too drunk the night before maybe 3 or 4 days after the story broke that she was trying to get pregnant. Do these girls have any common sense?

        • Macis Red Cup says:
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          Catelynn’s trying to get pregnant?!?! WTF?? She’s one of the few I actually liked. She wasn’t perfect but she had a pretty shitty upbringing and seemed to try her best to make her life better. Why, why, WHY, do they advertise on social media that they are “trying for a baby” who does that?? MTV should start including therapy for the girls and their kids in their contracts…..

        • Rae says:
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          Worse: They sold the story to a tabloid. Which will follow with another article in a tabloid about her getting pregnant. And then about giving birth. And then about Butch trying to snort the umbilical cord and April stealing the placenta to put in the bassinet she bought Carly years ago. They have a goldmine in their awkward little hands and that’s unfortunate.

      • Duhh says:
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        I’ve been trying to get pregnant for the last three years. Does that mean I shouldn’t drink?
        I drink all the time, with my friends. I’m not going to put my life on hold because I just might someday happen to get pregnant.
        I’ve been to quite a few fertility specialists and different doctors, and none of them have said “OMG YOU NEED TO STOP DRINKING RIGHT NOW! ITLL KILL YOUR BABY AT THE MOMENT OF CONCEPTION!!!!”
        They told me to carry on as I usually would until there’s actually a baby in there. Cool your jets. I swear, most of you guys are LOOKING for something to be judgey about.

        • Roast Beef Kaiser Sandwich says:
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          Oh good lord I said self-medicating not drinking like any other fucking adult. Calm down, dude. You’re comparing apples and oranges.

        • Roast Beef Kaiser Sandwich says:
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          Sorry but I said in an earlier comment that because she’s self-medicating and jumping on tabloids the second her period is late she needs to see a therapist and slow the fuck down. Not just for the kid she wants to have at this minute (and I’m not saying she should never have a kid again) but for her first daughter’s sake as well. She’s what? 21, 22? She can wait a few years to get her fucking life straight and see if her man actually sticks it out this time.

        • Ibathmykids says:
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          And you wonder why you’re not pregnant lol

        • Adam's Promise Rings says:
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          Whoa Ibathmykids, that is not cool. You do not make jokes about infertility. That is cruel and unnecessary.

          Alcohol consumption does not prevent conception. If it did, the world would be a much better place, as people like Jenelle wouldn’t conceive.

          DUHH, best of luck to you, ignore the idiotic statements and keep enjoying life :-)

        • Ibathmykids says:
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          Uhhh no I am not joking. She is trying to conceive yet she “drinks all the time.” Is SHE joking? Dipshits.

        • Duhh says:
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          lol @ibathmykids, wtf. I can assure you that my infertility is not caused by my alcohol consumption. Or maybe you know more about the situation than the countless fertility specialists I’ve spoken to?

        • Farrahsautotune says:
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          It’s kind of concerning that someone trying to get pregnant has the kind of relationship with alcohol where going without is “putting my life on hold”. How in the world is that healthy…

  15. Jesus Take The Uterus says:
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    I’m just going to point out that if she was infact 6 weeks on April 12th. That would mean she was only about 3 weeks when she made the announcement to Radar. Can you even get a positive pregnancy test that early? That would only be a week after possible conception right? So there is a slight chance that a blood test would detect pregnancy at that point, but if she just got off birth control and they only just started trying its hard to believe that a Dr would deem the blood test medically necessary and wouldn’t just wait a couple weeks for a urine test to be accurate.

    • Farrahs Neck Mole says:
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      If your timing is right, it would be HIGHLY UNLIKELY to get a positive pregnancy test that early. Usually, the earliest you can get a + is like 11 days after conception. But even then, it’s iffy. Even the early pregnancy test directions suggest you wait until after your missed period (usually around 14 days after conception.)

    • Ace says:
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      That’s what I pointed out a while ago, she announced when she thought she was 5 weeks (in which case you STILL wouldn’t have a freakin bump) but she was actually then only 3 weeks along when she announced which means yep, only conceived an actual ‘baby’ 1 week prior. But yet she was sooo insistent she had a bump, and had to post numerous photos of it. I imagine it would be incredibly hard to get a positive result at 3, or even 4 weeks pregnant. I was trying for my last child, so was always doing the ovulations tests & pregnancy tests really early on. I did one at 5 weeks and it came up positive, but it was so faint.

    • celizmarkle says:
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      I got one at 3 weeks exactly with my daughter and 3 weeks 5 days with my son. Home pregnancy tests, two different kinds.

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        I hope that didn’t come off as rude, I should have added that i was just saying it’s very possible if your HCG levels are good, but every woman’s levels very for many different reasons.

        • Ace says:
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          Didn’t sound rude, don’t worry :) I believe you, but you ain’t Ashley Salazar lol. Did you know when you ovulated though, or did you just go by your LMP?

      • celizmarkle says:
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        @Ace with my daughter I knew when I ovulated and tested early out of excitement of trying to conceive. With my son I had a random craving for pancakes (what I craved with my daughter) so I just took a test after my husband jokingly asked if I was pregnant, when the test turned positive I went back and checked when my last period was and figured out my ovulation dates from there, of course they matched up to when we did the deed lol.

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    1) If the miscarriage thing is true then it is unfortunate. As others have pointed out if you announce your pregnancy very publicly w/ articles and bump pictures at such an early stage of pregnancy and then stop talking about it and ignore people of course you are just going to be bombarded every day with question after question, especially after your best friend did the same thing and it ended being she lied the whole time. It’s just the way it is, right or wrong. This is why people recommend waiting at least 12 weeks to publicly announce pregnancy or you will be bombarded with questions if something is to happen.
    2) if the whole thing is a sham then seriously screw her. It’s disgusting that this is what these girls come up with for money/attention/fame. It is a complete insult to those who go through it and it should seriously be illegal to fake something so tragic and make profits off of it

  17. NicAnt says:
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    I know everyone greaves different but whenever I had my miscarriage I laid in bed for over a week before I would talk about it. I couldn’t even imagine going to a bar and talking about trying again so soon after. She seems desperate for a child when you look at her actions lately & that isn’t healthy for anyone involved including the unborn baby. Its sad and she needs some serious counseling

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    She seems crazy, but not quite crazy enough to pull a Nikkole. I’d almost be willing to bet that she’s one of those girls who doesn’t get her period on time so she immediately takes a pregnancy test that comes out negative but she lets it sit so long that both lines show up and she claims it was positive. Then when her period finally comes she claims it’s a miscarriage (I’ve had a friend do this multiple times). The doctor visit is the only thing that makes me think this isn’t the case, but she could have made that part up. Who knows.

    • Roast Beef Kaiser Sandwich says:
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      Your friend has done that MULTIPLE times? Jesus…that sounds like quite a prolonged pity party.

    • Farrahs Neck Mole says:
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      Well, there’s also something called a chemical pregnancy, which is an EXTREMELY EARLY miscarriage. Usually, women don’t even realize they’re pregnant, because the miscarriage happens so close to their expected period that they think it actually is their period.

      But with a blighted ovum, the body can keep those hormones pumping for a long time. I didn’t end up passing mine until 12 weeks, after waiting for it to happen naturally. Even after that, I bled for two months straight and had to get a D&C to get the remaining tissue out. Sorry, TMI! I’m just saying that these things can be complicated. I don’t understand going out and drinking though, because since your body believes you’re really pregnant, your hormones are surging and you’re totally emotional about all this…expecting a pregnancy, being told it’s not “really” a pregnancy, etc. So, it’s kind of devastating. At least it was for me. But everyone deals with things differently. What I learned is that it really IS possible to be “kind of pregnant.”

  19. Nikkoles Teddy Bear says:
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    I think she’s so damn desperate to keep Justin that she wants another trap baby. Again, since she’s desperate for attention (operative word: desperate), she ran to Radar as soon as she “thought” she was pregnant. I think that if she was going to pull a Nikkole, she would have kept up the charade much longer. I agree with Creative Username. I think that if she’s a day late she thinks she’s pregnant!

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    I don’t think she faked it. I just think she was ignorant and announced it too early. Plus she also defended announcing it early and and now she’s probably embarrassed because she got put in her place, and that’s why she won’t acknowledge it.

    Plus the drinking is no surprise. We all know she abuses alcohol. Her and Maci could be drinking buddies. Ashley was probably sipping a margarita while peeing on her pregnancy test just incase it came up positive and she had to quit. Of course she’d hit the booze as soon as she learned she miscarried/wasn’t properly pregnant in the first place.

  21. r2d2 says:
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    I really hope she wasn’t lying about the pregnancy, but it seems pretty obvious that she was. Must’ve needed a little more attention.

  22. Javis Teeth says:
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    Liar, liar, pants on fire. She never was pregnant, thst’s what I believe. Another attention whore.

  23. Daddy Issues says:
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    Do I think that she faked it? Maybe? Who knows? Do I think that she is the kind of person who would fake a pregnancy? Absolutely.

  24. Rae says:
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    I realize this is not really the forum for such things but I just wanted to let you guys know that today was one of the worst days of my life so I might be sleeping for several days in order to recover emotionally and therefore may be conspicuously absent again. But you guys make me laugh and laughter is good on horrible days so I look forward to reading my fellow snarkers soon. And the good news is nothing completely irreversible happened today and no one I know died so BRIGHT SIDE!

  25. Ireallyhadtoregister says:
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    Even though she is lying, we don’t know when her friends 21st is and she could’ve meant if she hadn’t popped by then.

  26. Ace says:
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    I knew when it had been 2 whole days, and she hadn’t posted a ‘bump’ picture, that she was no longer pregnant. If she ever was.

  27. L0 says:
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    Even after reading this update, I’m still left thinking this girl is just nuts.

  28. jennapoof says:
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    This has blown my mind!
    I am struggling to understand with how she could so elatedly boast about this pregnancy so early, and then hush up so fast when things took a common 1st trimester unfortunate turn…why even say anything at all? I am sorry for her loss…if that is what has happened…but she is clearly not in the right state of mind to be trying to have a baby. I’m sure if she miscarried she will be trying right away for another baby, based on her instagram comment.
    I’m sorry, if your facsinated by baby changing stations in bars, you shouldn’t be trying to have a baby! Or talking about taking your future baby there!
    In the meantime, it may sound harsh, but I’ve been thinking she’s kept quiet because she probably sold a miscarriage story to some magazine or another….after all she is one of the sulia nickel takers. If I do see her pop in a magazine in the next few weeks, seriously shame on this girl!

  29. Macis Red Cup says:
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    Maybe she gained a couple of pounds and with all the fat shaming she’s done she decided it would be easier to fake an early pregnancy and then miscarry while she works to burn it off again? Sounds crazy I know. But that’s what she is right?

  30. Kails Sweet 16 says:
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    Ugly potato looking bitch

  31. trashtvismyguiltypleasure says:
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    I’m not an Ashley fan. Never have been never will be. She reminds me a lot of Nicole in that they very obviously really wanted to be on Teen Mom to keep themselves relevant and since they couldn’t they now jump to get attention in anyway possible. I bet the two of them are friends and text and have some kinda agreement that they’ll constantly mention each other in silia posts to keep each other relevant. I can’t stand those two. They’re right up with with Jenelle to me honestly. I wouldn’t be surprised if they did the bat shit crazy stuff that she did too they’re just not on tv so they’re able to hide it easier.

    • Kails Sweet 16 says:
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      Nikkole actually is very similar to Jenelle. She doesn’t have custody of her son, posts photos of him and videos on social media to seem like a good mother, she lives with a boyfriend away from Lyle, she does drugs, she recorded herself drinking underage and the video ended up on youtube, she had a fake baby and named is Ashton just like Jenelle’s fake miscarriage baby, she goes through friends like crazy, she does sulia, and we have seen her nude. Oh, and Jenelle has an abnormally large chin while Nikkole has an abnormally large nose. Very similar.

  32. Bob Saget says:
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    Welp Guys…. looks like Radar gave her the biggest bucks again to sell the little bit of her soul left to.

    i would say I’m surprised, but I’m not…. at all. As for whether she faked it or not… eh. Part of me totes believes that she was gonna pull a Nikkole, actually grew a little bit of a conscious (or realized that her story was not adding up from the beginning) and just called it quits. The other part of me hopes she wasn’t lying, and that hopefully in the future she won’t try to profit off stuff like this again.

    • Nikkoles Teddy Bear says:
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      I hope that Radar stops giving her money. She’s a crazy train trying to hang on long after the 15 minutes were up. Long, long after. Her episode was so unbearable it’s the only one I never finished. BTW, is she the first girl to finish 4 years of college?

      • Kails Sweet 16 says:
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        Yes but she didn’t have her child so she really shouldn’t count as the first mom to do it. She’s basically just an average girl.

  33. tiffer says:
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    Ok she said she had a blighted ovum then says her baby was only measuring six weeks at her eight week checkup. If the latter is the case she did not have a blighted ovum. That occurs when a fertilized egg attaches but the empty pregnancy sac develops but no embryo. There is no embryo or fetus to grow. Two totally different things.

  34. Ace says:
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    So apparenty Catelynn is pregnant already?