It seems the pressures of being a pseudo celebrity is wearing on Mr and Mrs Leah Calvert, and that’s been on display recently with their response to fans on twitter (keep in mind, I use the term fan very loosely).
There have been a number of weird rumors regarding Leah’s miscarriage that happened about a year ago, but is only now recently airing on TV. I read that she got pregnant just so she can sell the story, that she was never pregnant but wanted to sell the story anyway, aliens stole the baby to breed a population from West Virginia to recreate Buck Wild (I made the last one up).
However, when one person mentioned how she thought Leah got an abortion and just covered it up with a miscarriage, Jeremy blew his lid and went off on her via twitter. This was about 12 hours after Leah had her own twitter flame with a different fan, and let out a little too much info in the process…
I said on twitter the other night that any reality ‘star’ who checks their twitter often, especially during an episode of their show may be a masochist. People say tons of crazy things on that site, it’s shocking celebrities (even the 15 minute variety), actually use it. I have a fraction of the followers they do, yet hear crazy stuff all the time. Leah is constantly reading whatever is mentioned about her, retweeting the good stuff and apparently letting the bad stuff stew until she blows it. A word of advice, Leah… stay off twitter.
As far as the abortion rumor, it’s just dumb. Leah has been pregnant three times, and nearly had four kids.. I’m surprised she uses ANY birth control, let alone getting abortions when seeds make it through. The rumor was apparently started because she still had feelings for Corey around the time she got knocked up, but this is the same girl who hooked up with someone else then continued to get married to Corey. She wasn’t going to let a little thing like feelings for an ex get in the way of moving forward with a new guy.
Instead of stooping down to reply to fans like that, Leah should take advice from Kailyn and Jenelle. Just threaten to leave twitter over and over until fans kiss their ass enough to remain on the site.
PS – How much do you think it bothers Jeremy that Leah has the verified check, but he is still on the level of us welfare grabbing plebes?
Double PS – Assuming Leah is telling the truth, do you consider 5 guys plus 2 husbands before the age of 21 ‘whore worthy’ or not?
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I absolutely think it makes her a whore! Shes been with Jeremy a year and a half, Corey for at least 2, and Robbie for 2-3. Did she start at age 8?
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^^^Best comments all day. “Can we co-parent?” LMFAO.
I wouldn’t be surprised if she started that early…another likely story is that she was just doing them all at the same time.
She might not have been that young. Why would she let something like a relationship stand in the way? Obviously these guys all overlapped each other.
Jesus Christ, look at all the misogony here. Please stop the slut shaming here. No ones a “slut” for being with a couple different guys. Stop shamin people for having sex. There aint wrong with that. As long as the sex is safe and consensual. God I hope none of you have daughters. I have no faith in the world.
ha I love how you say the most logical thing here and its voted down!
I know right. I have no faith in humanity.
Seven is not a couple. And the sex may have been consensual but it sure hasn’t been safe. Are you forgetting how many pregnancies she’s had? I think I agree with most when they say that it isn’t so much the number but the WAY she’s been wth those 7 guys that makes her just…gross. Not sharing your opinion doesn’t make any of us misogynistic.
let’s also remember that she and Corey barely knew each other when she got pregnant.
Yes it does make you a sexist. Having sex doesn’t make you a criminal. Just a human. She may have cheated but people are focusin on her sex life. Not her cheating. And that what makes her a “whore” I never said Leah was a saint
No one is shaming sex, but if she’s cheating, then there’s shame in THAT sex. If she’s been with that many guys, some people are saying according to the timeline, there would have had to be cheating going on.
She likes sex, and there’s nothing wrong with that. If she likes it to the point that she cheats on the people she’s with to get it, that’s where she loses some people’s respect.
Fair enough, but lets be real here; Adam has cheated on Chelsea over 5 times, yet no one called him a slut or whore. Yeah they called him an asshole but asshole isn’t used to demean, oppress, or put men in their place like “whore or slut” is.
He’s a manwhore. Does that make you feel better?
I agree, i cant beleive people think your a slutfor sleeping with seven guys. Thats not alot, nothing wrong there, but if it were to be like 40-50, then she might be a slut…
No no no. It doesn’t work that way. You don’t get to pick some arbitrary number and decide that if someone exceeds that, then they’re a slut.
Why do feminists always reach to make things about women when it’s clearly not? This isn’t about that. This is about one PERSON and their ridiculous life that they have shared for the world to comment on. That person happens to be a woman, but that’s not the reason people are talking negatively about her. It’s about the questionable actions she’s made as an individual.
Do you not realize most of the “Teen Mom” fanbase is young women themselves? Why would they discriminate against a peer of the same gender for being a woman? Seriously you are trying WAY too hard here. Misogony happens. It’s still out there, but it’s not happening here. Take your passion for this issue, apply logic, and use it in a place where it’s actually needed.
Except this is about women. People are attacking Leah for having sex with 7 men. If this was about Ryan or Adam, people would be calling them douchebags, assholes, but they are not used to oppress men like whore and slut is to oppress women. I don’t like Leah nor am I defending her but this is about sex and women. This has to be addressed because its a problem.
Can i just say lol @ everyone supporting your comment and hating on her for sleeping with ONLY 7 people. Are you kidding??? That’s nothing and sounds like all of you just need to get laid.
She’s a whore. Hands down.
Considering I am 27, with 2 year old twins, been in a committed relationship with my children’s father for 7 years, and I haven’t had sex with 7 men.
I consider myself an attractive person who dated a lot, but I didn’t show my hoo-ha to every guy who came around.
The fact that she got pregnant a month after dating Corey shows that she lets anyone in her pants fast.
She’s not a whore. Whores do it for money. She’s a slut.. Get it right!
MTV is money … soooo whore.
And what does it make the guys who can’t keep it in their pants? Don’t you think it’s pretty sexist to just attack the girl only and call her a whore? Are you really that ignorant?
Um, because this post is about LEAH, not some guy, not some girl. People have called out on Adam all the time for cheating all the time and having so many partners without using protection. Why is it when Adam does it he’s suchhhhh a doucheeeeeee, but when Leah does it, it’s “poor Leah, no one understnadssss
:( being young is harddddd, it’s not her faulttttt” Ugh. That’s where the double standards are.
But do you see anyone calling him a whore? No. He’s a douche because he treats women like dirt. Leah may have played Corey dirty but the reason she’s being called a whore is because of her 7 partners. Adam isn’t called a whore because of his many partners. He got someone else pregnant for Christs sake. I also like how my comment got 20 down votes. I hope none of you have daughters. Am I the only one who isn’t a internalized sexist?
I’d like to point out that Leah was being called a whore long before anyone knew the number of guys she’s slept with (although someone who reveals that number to half a million people or however many followers she has clearly does not have a normal attitude towards sex). It’s always been about her behaviour, not a number. And when I call a guy a douche (as Adam is frequently called) I call him that because he behaves in a sleazy way towards women. When I call a girl a slut it’s because she behaves in a sleazy way towards men. There’s no sexism here. People are talking about Leah because this post is about her. If it was about Adam, they’d call him out just as much.
Also, part of what makes people judge her is the fact that she announced to the world her number of sexual partners. That is what’s ignorant. Who but a whore does that?
Give it up already! We get you think it’s sexist. Calm down about it.
7 is what she admits to. I’m sure it’s actually far more. But I don’t think it’s really about the number, it’s more about how easy she is, how fast she goes and also that she is a cheater.
In Leah’s case, its not the number that is making her a “whore.” She has moved extremely fast, and acted so irresponsibly, in both of the relationships we have been shown, and not respected either of them. Physical cheating and emotional cheating are equally as bad. I can’t believe Jeremy still married her after she said so many times she would go back to Corey if they went to therapy and such.
I can’t figure it out either. He’s not exactly Mr. Personality so I can’t really read what he is thinking or feeling. I just don’t get why a young guy that supposedly makes great money would want to tie himself down with someone who isn’t even really in love with him, and has 2 kids! Maybe he has the guy version of the desperation for family that Leah has? Or is it the fame? Dunno.
thats what i was thinking, quick easy family…
or we could go darker with this, like “grooming” darker someone pointed out to me and i just cant get that out of my head now.
Yeah I was going to add that but I don’t even want to think about it. Obviously I’m not the only one who has thought of it…
I want to ask what someone means by “grooming” darker, but maybe it’s one of those things I’d rather not know about, especially if it sounds like you guys don’t want to even think about it…
http://en (DOT) wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_grooming
Also, I saw this and it sent a chill down my spine..
Under “Some characteristics of a pedophile” –
He or she targets children who are timid, disabled, or “those who come from troubled homes.”
Let me be clear. I don’t think Jeremy is a pedophile. My point is that Leah is lucky that he ISN’T because of the complete lack of responsibility on her part. Moving way too fast and not giving herself enough time to know him before they rushed ahead with moving in/getting pregnant/getting engaged.
^ that was me. lol
That’s the only reason I could think of as well as to why he’d want to be with her. Maybe he was just really desperate for a wife and his own child, and bingo! There’s Leah. I don’t get it myself, my husband and I watched her on the check up and the episode after, going on about how she still loves Corey, how if he said he loves her she’d be with him. But if he doesn’t, she stays with Jeremy. So basically he’s a back up, cause she couldn’t just be alone. Don’t know how Jeremy could stand that.
I used to feel sorry for Jeremy. But not anymore. Because I believe that Jeremy has a motive for wanting to be with Leah that goes beyond being in love. The whole relationship is just too odd. From meeting Leah on Facebook. The quick move-in. Accepting Leah’s children almost immediately. He just seemed to eager and desperate to get engaged, get married and have children right a way with a woman that he only have known for a few months and basically see one or two days a week. I have this one thought that keeps going through my mind. I could be wrong and it may be far fetched. But. I’m wondering if he betted someone that he could hook-up with Leah? The girl from Teen Moms. Then it became a game to him that he couldn’t stop playing. And that’s the reason why he’s putting up with the b.s from Leah. He doesn’t want to lose the bet.
Should we expect anything less from these people?! As far as Leah goes she is a loose, wannabe southern belle. What merit does Jeremy have when he married that nasty mess? Only someone like Leah would think that 7 guys by her age is a good argument for her not being a whore. On a side note, I’d bet money that if she said 7, it’s probably more like 17.
Agreed Leah and Jeremy are just lame they love when people kiss their ass but hate when people speak the truth about them. All of the girls are like that they can handle the ass kissing but can’t handle the truth and people opinion when it’s calling out their disturbing behavior. Get off twitter and social media if you can’t handle it and Leah being with 7 guys is nasty if you really think about it. How long does it take for Leah to spread her legs for guy what two days she is easy and a cheater and she lack any self respect hopefully her daughters grow up to love themselves and have respect. It’s seem to me all you have to do is said hi i to Leah and tell she pretty and her legs are open like a 7 eleven its just sad.
It’s not the number of guys that makes you a whore. Ive talked about being a “reformed slut” on this site before, it’s not something I’m ashamed of. I’ve been with more guys then Leah, and am about her age. When I was 16/17 I was a slut, sleeping with way too many guys thinking sex was love. Obviously I look back and regret it,but I’m glad I learned my lesson without getting any diseases and the best part of my life(my son).
The difference between me and Leah? When I got pregnant, I realized what love really is. It’s not about sex or even guys, it’s an emotional connection and a desire to be the best you can be because the person you love deserves that. Leah doesnt love herself or have any desire to better herself for her children, and she continues to seek approval through guys. Its very self destructive and one day shell realize that you cant truly love someone until you love yourself and are content being alone. I haven’t slept with anyone since I conceived my son (hell be 2 in march) and I don’t consider myself a whore. My past is my past and I’m not proud of it but Im glad I learned my lesson. Leah just hasn’t learned her lesson yet, I hope one day she does.
Also, I have an awful fear of letting a guy into my life before my son can talk/really communicate. I know this sounds paranoid, but there are so many creeps out there and I would be so worried about having a guy around my baby before I can xplain to him and he can understand who is allowed to touch him and what’s appropriate. That’s my biggest fear for Leah’s children, because she pushes them to “love” jeremy and I worry that he *could* be a pedophile….and her girls would never say anything because Leah is so adamant that they be in love with Jeremy.
She would be the PERFECT target for just such a person. On what planet do you let someone that you have known 2 months move in with you and your 2 daughters?!?!?
yes, someone said that so me before off hand, “god its like hes grooming her” and a shiver went down my spine. I hope nothing but the best for Leahs children and her marraige, now who thinks Ali is a dwarf and she is hiding it?
I think Ali has acondroplasia. She has the walk for it. I think Leah’s determination that “nothing is wrong with ma babayyy!” is really going to harm Ali in the long run. Her having a condition doesn’t mean there’s a “problem” and that she’s not your perfect child, it just means she needs to get help, but Leah isn’t having that. Hell, this is coming from the woman who canceled her follow-up trip to the doctor after her miscarriage because she “didn’t want to deal with it”. That’s so dangerous! I know it’s scary to deal with bricks, but ignoring it won’t make her any better.
I’m pretty sure I read within the last month or two that they have finally figured out what Ali has after her appointment in December but of course they didn’t say what.
I’m thinking it’s a form of dwarfism as well since she’s still so much shorter than her sister. I don’t think it’s acondroplasia though, Ali doesn’t have the facial characteristics for it. And as far as I can tell her hands don’t have the characteristic “gap” between the middle and ring fingers. Thanks for the acon knowledge Little People Big World!
Sammy – AMEN! Remember in Season 1 when she was asking her mom (who she claimed was a nurse but is really a dental hygienist) about Ali and if mom thought something was wrong and mom said Leah should take Goggles to the doctor? Leah said, “I don’t want to take her to the doctor because I don’t want anything to be wrong with her”. I agree, it’s gotta be hard as a mom, but denial won’t help a damn thing. And she’s still doing it. Yet at times she would be all over Corey about “not sugarcoating anything” related to Goggles. It’s totally confusing. And what was up with her tweet last week when someone had the nerve to refer to Goggles as “special needs” – she flipped out. Yes Leah, your child has special needs – doesn’t mean she isn’t perfect to you, doesn’t mean you love her less, doesn’t mean anything except that she needs additional help some other children may not.
You should be ashamed of yourself for calling Ali goggles. While I do not like Leah or any of her millions of bad choices, to call a child a derogatory nickname makes you a sad sack of shit.
I think little ali definatley has Dwarfism.That or a muscle disorder.The dwarfism would explain the short limbs and club feet,turned in legs.Apperently leah flipped out on some girl on twitter who dared to call aliannah “Special needs”which she is.She called her a dumbass and attacked the poor girl.It’s sad,because there is nothing wrong with SN child.My best friend’s little boy is SN and it’s highly offensive the way leah acted as if that was a bad term.I think leah is in deep denial about ali.Corey i think accepts ali for who she is.I think leah wants to ignore ali’s diagnosis and gets very nasty and defensive when people ask how is doing.There was a whole article about it on wetpaint.I really hope this does not effect ali when she is growing up.
The name goggles came from another blogger, he likes the girls a lot and its just something he says….not condoning it but just putting that out there.
It’s not a term of endearment. No one would call that precious little girl “goggles” to her face. That is unless they wanted a swift kick to the balls from any rational person standing within earshot. It’s just not ok.
She’s really not very much shorter than her sister. Looks like only an inch or so.
I try not to judge how she acts/reacts about Ali. I cannot imagine how hellish it must be to watch your baby girl go through that. Even though she says she doesn’t want to take her to the doctor she always does. She’s had the tests and treatments done, we’ve seen the PT on the show.
I think she flipped out on the girl who called her special needs because the girl was being a bitch. She basically said how dare you have another child when you have one that is SN. I’m sure she does know that Ali is special needs but when people are constantly attacking your child it probably becomes second nature to snap back.
You are all correct, I was wrong to use that name for Ali, it’s just a name used by another blogger for her, as in Goggles and non-Googles (Aleeah). That was insensitive of me and I, the “sad sack of shit”, will do my utmost to reform my behavior and attitude.
It isn’t the number but come on! ok she dated Robbie for like 3 years right? ok so lets say she was 14 when they started. By the age of 17 and after dating Corey for one month (when I heard that the first time I was like O-: shockedface )she got knocked up. Alright by the end of her 18s 19s she was divorced, and 2 mins later she was with Jeremy (now over a year + marrried) so when did she bang the other 5 fives? did she start having sex when she was 12? Again is not the number.. it’s just the number of people before the age of 21+2 marriages +3 kids. What makes it worse though, is that she posted it on twitter for the twitter teen mom followers to see. I am starting to think she’s really THAT stupid (before i just thought she wasnt too bright)
oh and BTW I’ve been dating my bf for 3 years, about her twins age. No babies, no 7 guys, no marriage.. I just dont understand what goes thru her head!!
thank you, Its not the number its the cheating! If you are right these 5 guys are all during her relatingship with Robbie, Corey and who knows maybe Jeremy
Plus Ive always wondered along with my husband if Corey ever got a DNA test for for the girls…
Ali is IDENTICAL to Corey, though. And I know super crazy things can happen and twins can have different fathers, but that seems a little far fetched even for that trash bag. Although, now that I think about it, Jeremy looks quite a bit like Corey and so do half of those buckwild fools.
hehe trash bag
Cheating doesn’t make you a whore it just makes you a sh-tty person.
It makes you a whore and a sh-tty person.
No it just makes you a crappy person.
Cheating DOES to make you a whore it makes you a whore and a shitty person!
i dont understand why the thumbs are down for these, cheating is awful. I’ll admit I cheated I felt like a whore and a shitty person so I never did that again. Cheating is for cowards.
No it just means you’re a shitty person
I agree with you all its not the number its the fact she got pregnant within 30 days of knowing the guy TWICE! Or maybe that doesent make her a whore maybe it makes her a stupid desperate idiot!!
OK, I am usually on board with bashing the selfish choices of these people, but I’m sorry – it’s nothing short of obscene that people are suspecting Jeremy of being a pedophile. That’s is such a serious accusation and when people go and talk shit like that it can damage the credibility of actual victims of abuse.
Come on. He might be a door mat but we don’t need to go down the pedo rabbit hole.
I also wonder about the subtext of Leah’s post; do we know she slept with all 7 guys? I mean, I’m 33 and with my man of 4 years, but back in my 20′s I went through a phase where I had a lot of short term encounters, but none of those went past 3rd base. Would those still count towards my slut tally? I don’t consider myself a slut for making out with a few dozen guys in my life and only having slept with 2.
Don’t get me wrong; I am not a fan of Leah and there was such delicious irony over on TMT when Heather was defending Leah by saying “When she loves, she loves 100%!” and then BAM the new episode airs and we see how conflicted she is in her new engagement. She’s a selfish kid. But I just can’t get behind this latest rain of hate, it seems a bit much.
By “being with” 7 guys, she is absolutely referring to having sex with seven different males. I’m sure we would be here all day and night counting how many guys she’s kissed.
Although I agree with you that calling someone a pedophile is a very serious accusation that shouldn’t be taken lightly, I don’t think people are doing it to be mean. I think everyone is just genuinely concerned for the safety of the twins.
I am not accusing Jeremy of being a pedophile! I was saying that it’s scary how Leah rushed into a relationship with a guy she barely knows when she has two young children. I’m sorry but that’s just dumb and you are setting yourself up to be with a pedophile. I hate that MTV is encouraging this because even though Jeremy is probably not a pedophile, it’s setting the precedent for other single mothers that moving that quickly with a guy is okay. It’s not! As single moms, we need to be super aware and careful about relationships, because like it or not we are the targets for pedos…
Let me clarify, I am not faulting anyone here for having an abundance of caution with their kids or for calling Leah out on her lack thereof. You’re absolutely right, you need to be careful about who gets access to your kids until you know them.
I am pissed about the few who are speculating that there is grooming going on with Jeremy and the kids.
That’s shit you don’t ever throw around lightly and a completely rotten accusation to make to someone you don’t even know. Like I said, when people jump on that bandwagon, it hurts both innocent people and actual victims.
I definitely agree with both JNV and Jenelle’s Pack, but I do want to pull the law student card here and say that as we know that Leah and her cronies are all over Twitter and Teen Mom blogs reading comments, people should DEFINITELY exercise caution or at least careful wording when discussing Jeremy and this kind of thing. While it doesn’t exactly add up to an accusation, it’s still a super serious discussion and obviously nobody wants their comments here being forwarded onto some higher power who may or may not see it differently. I had to chip in with that, sorry!
I’m not calling Jeremy a Pedo. But she has certainly created an atmosphere where a Pedo could come in and abuse her children. She’s a easy target due to her decision making and her history of hooking up with men that she hardly know and getting pregnant by them. With Cory I will give her a pass. But with Jeremy…there’s no excuse. Now Leah and Jeremy moved in together within 2 months of meeting. What did Leah really know about him? Did she do a background check? Pedo’s troll websites and Facebook looking for lonely, needy and desperate mothers like Leah. Luckily. So far Jeremy doesn’t seem to be that type of person. She should count herself lucky
^agree sorry for bringing the whole thing up
Wow..way to show your lack of class and maturity Jeremy. He sank as low as the crazies. How sad and pathetic. On the whole ‘whore’ debate, she is one no doubt about it. Being in denial doesn’t help either. Why the HELL would you EVER tell the PUBLIC your #????? Enough said lol
I”m so tired of hearing about LEEEEUH. Shes so annoying, Her kids are beautiful but i hope they don’t turn out like their mum, i’m 20 and have had 2 sexual partners and feel gross. As for her being pregnant a 4th time i think its outrageous. On last nights show (January 2012) she was saying they were moving to fast, fast forward a year shes married and just pushed out another kid. I’d love to know her definition of slow. Clearly this girl needs to have a man to support her and make her feel good.
Side-note – Has anyone else noticed that they’re are no recent pictures of LEEEUH and JERRRMY together, when they first started shacking up there were pictures of them kidding all over twitter and Facebook. (I know he works just saying its weird you don’t see pictures of them together anymore)
i dont get it. Theyre in the public eye. Their life is on tv and they dont expect people to say stuff about them? They dont expect to be judged? What the f is going on in that town?!?!
Way to open up to the public, Leah! Jenelle hasn’t even surrendered that information yet.
Twitter doesn’t have enough characters for Jenelle’s number.
Hmm, let’s do some pretend math:
Starts dating a guy just after 12th birthday. A few months later loses virginity and they break up. Boo!
Begins dating someone new and again waits a few months before putting out, and again gets dumped like just another notch in the old bedpost.
Now 13, our girl is a little wiser. Begins dating Robbie and doesn’t put out right away, she waits a magical six months before doing the dirty. For some reason she is not dumped right away and they stay together for a couple of years. Except for that one night stand when she was really drunk at that one party. But that doesn’t really count right? Okay, it counts, but Robbie doesn’t need to know!
Six more months pass and she is almost 16. Too bad she and Robbie the miracle penis break up, it’s so sad.
To get over the loss, she falls into the arms of this real neat boy at school, sleeps with him because he says she’s pretty, and once again, gets dumped. She has the sadz!
Suddenly, smelling of Off! Deep Woods, Corey enters the picture and sweet talks our girl. She falls in ‘love’, and off the panties go again. But because life is either comedy or tragedy, she gets knocked up and she is just 16. Dang it!! There goes the dream of being a queen at the county fair!
She has the babies and her body bounces real well, or so says the guy who rings her up at the local Piggly Wiggly, and since she and Corey aren’t really seeing eye-to-eye most days whats the harm in a little tickle in the walk in freezer on a Friday night? None!
Time flies when you are having fun and sure as shit she and Corey break up over some of the dumbest issues this writer has ever heard. I mean, they break up over a very important bath tub and a truck.
Our lady is lonesome once again but there is this cute boy on the old facebook who heard she was single and on MTV and sure enough, since he knows her ex, she is DTF like it’s on sale for a dollar. But it looks like this time she has hit the jackpot because this boy is so dumb he proposes after getting trapped by her magical vagina.
This is the easy way to hit seven partners in as many years, while being married twice. So she may not technically be a whore, and all people do make mistakes, but she’s definitely the kind of girl you don’t take home to momma or leave alone with your brother. Or your best friend. Or your neighbor.
This was great, you’re a gem.
lol ‘magical vagina’
AWESOME!!!
I’m sorry- but all the people saying “I’m 20 and have only been with 3 guys.. I’m 23 and have only been with 4″… does that make you any better? It’s ridiculous that the “acceptable” age to have sex has decreased SO much. What happened to not having sex until you were in a serious, committed, monogamous relationship.. or God forbid, until you were MARRIED?? It has nothing to do with religion either, it’s just a matter of women have so little self respect for themselves anymore that it’s become acceptable to have sex as young as 14/15. It’s sad, really. I’m terrified for my children to grow up. Before long it’ll be acceptable to have sex at 10? 11? Maybe before all of you start to judge anyone else (not defending Leah or any of the other teen moms in the slightest) you might try and re-evaluate your selves and your own morals.
Oh get real Kelli! Sex is a natural thing for young women to want and have and those very natural desires start around puberty, which if you have been paying attention, starts as early as 8-10 in many girls these days. Waiting for marriage isn’t going to happen most of the time and just because you have sex before marriage doesn’t mean you don’t respect yourself or your body.
Just because those urges come, doesn’t make it okay to act on them. So you’re saying it’s okay for an 8 year old to have sex? Good for you, good parenting!Thank you for solidfying my point of what has become “acceptable” ages for people to start having sex. Tell me if you feel the same when your 10 year old daughter comes home talking to you about having sex with her boyfriend of the week. Girls have sex young not because of the urge, but because they feel not only pressure but because it’s deemed acceptable now. Good for you (typed in my sarcastic font)..
Don’t be dumb in addition to being uppity and judgmental. Of course I don’t think it’s okay for a ten year old, much less an eight year old, to be having sex. I am saying that your expectation that women wait until marriage to have sex is extremely unrealistic.
Yes, young women do have sexual urges and they do act on them. It is also true that they are influenced by peer pressure and the crap they see on TV and in magazines. If you want to keep your youngsters from being teen parents you need to wake up and educate them about using protection because the reality of it is they will most likely not be waiting for marriage.
Definitely doesn’t mean we should throw out the notion of being that respectable and responsible to keep sex in the best possible place for it – which is marriage. It. Just. Is.
You tell me not to be “dumb” or “uppity” and then tell ME not to be judgemental? Oh, the irony.
The notion that girls should wait until being in a committed, long-term, monogamous relationship or marriage to have sex is “unrealistic” is the exact reason that teen pregnancies are such an issues in this country. It’s that mind-set that gives girls the idea that it’s not only okay to have sex at a young age, and recklessly, but it’s expected. I do agree that they need to be educated- but that doesn’t mean that gives them a free pass to sleep with whomever they want at any age they get that “urge” at. That’s ridiculous.
… I’ll be sure to send you my address for a baby shower invitationn when your 13 year old comes home pregnant!
Kelli, I have a son, so keep an eye on your daughters! I’ll be teaching him to wrap it since I know for a fact your daughter(s) will want to rebel against your old fashioned notions. Soon enough they will have their own bad rep at school and won’t you be too keen on discussing things with you unless you change your close minded attitude. So yes, do keep me in mind for that baby shower when the time comes.
Since the start of recorded history, in almost all cultures, people have been marrying their daughters off as young as 10 or 11. It was not uncommon for that girl to be pregnant by 13 or 14 either, especially since life expectancy has only been notably increased in the last hundred or so years. Not saying I agree with it, but preteens who are sexually active is nothing new by a long shot. People and human nature have remained EXACTLY the same since the dawn of time, it is only societal perceptions that are always changing.
Those young girls were married, and likely didn’t have other sexual partners. Possibly the men, too. But anyway, I know that it’s natural for the body to want sex at a young age. Society is different now to where you don’t just go from being a child to an adult, there’s this whole teen culture that delays adulthood, and a lot of people get stuck in it, and are often not mentally, emotionally, financially, ready for the responsibilities that come with babies, sex, marriage, even relationships at all. Society isn’t preparing adults by 12 or 14 these days. That’s reason to me to still say, that even if teens ARE having sex, it’s not wise or smart. Especially since in this day and age teens are still children, and they are not adults.
It’s natural for young little kids to want things that they aren’t ready for, and attempt to handle them, and think they can when they can’t. That’s why parents are there to teach ad guide them. Natural Want does not equal Wise Readiness. That’s why just the word “natural” doesn’t do a lot to justify things in my book. Dogs naturally eat their own poop and vomit. There are few people that believe people aren’t animals, anymore though.
That’s gotta be the most embarrassing comment to post, and the WHOLE world can see it.
Having sex with (at least) 7 guys before the age of 20 is my definition of a slut. GROSS!
I personally think any more than 1 person in the teen years would be considered slutty. But that’s just because I believe there’s no reason teens should be having sex in the first place…it is flat out irresponsible…no good can come of it. And I say ’1′ person, because I know teens like to experiment so the ’1′ is a freebie in my book. They try it, know it was a mistake, and LEARN from it instead of jumping in to bed with someone else and losing any more self respect.
Shut up. You sound ignorant. Are you in high school still? Who the hell cares who’s screwing who? Sex is natural. This is what society wants, we are taught to shame women who enjoy sex and have multiple partners. I honestly participated in the same bs calling girls sluts but good thing I became smart. I’m not a fan of Leah and she’s dumber than my dogs put together but I don’t agree with callin her a slut because she’s had sex with 7 guys. What about Corey and Jeremy? Who knows how many girls they been with but no one would bat an eye would they? Sexism. All of you should be ashamed for participating in sexism.
Just to put it out there, I think also that the best place for sex is marriage, and that teens are better off not having sex. I believe this for both sexes, equally. I’m pretty sure anyone who agrees with me, is not limiting it to women. Even if someone doesn’t have religious ideals of purity or all of that, wouldn’t anyone else agree that sex supposed to be ideally in the context of a committed relationship? I shouldn’t have even asked that because people are going to say “No, because you have to experiment when you’re young to get good at it and figure out what you like.”
I’m not going to go bashing anyone, calling them a slut or a whore in vulgar terms like that, even if I don’t agree with the way they use and treat their bodies. It’s sad that Leah has so many issues so that she feels she has to be so easy with so many guys. It’s not something I think is healthy and normal. I’d rather say that than call her, or anyone, a slut or a whore.
I still don’t agree with you but I respect your opinion. You’re probably the only one on here with a Brain.
Why the hell did she volunteer that information, especially to someone obviously looking for more whore ammunition.
“Your” the stupid one, Leah. Shoulda stayed in school.
I dont know any teen that have only been with one partner. Sorry i just dont think 7 people is alot. What makes her a slut is cheating on the eve of her wedding that is a big time. And getting knocked up 3 times as a teen isnt slutty its irresponsible and stupid. But the fact she cheated the night before her wedding makes her a huge whore i just cant imagine doing that. But thats okay karma will get her one day. Her and Jeremy wont work out and she will meet some redneck crook thats does her like a dog and shell deserve every bit of it for the way she did Corey. When she was whining and crying over her miscarriage on the last episode i just couldnt feel sorry for her the least bit.
Wow…if I ever have children, I pray I don’t have daughters.
Leah is a walking STD.
I get the heebie jeebies whenever I read either Twitter account. Between the fangirl retweets, the ill-informed political tweets, and the ridiculousness highlighted in this article, it makes me want to drive to West Virginia and shake the two of them.
I don’t think it’s up for debate. Leah has a pile of dandelion fluff for a brain, and Jeremy is probably one of those creeps that (if he were single) would message every girl he came across on OkCupid, beckoning them to the local Quaker Steak for a little Lube session. Without a doubt, this girl is a slut. It doesn’t matter how many guys she has been with (as many of you have pointed out), but the way she’s gone about it. Her piss poor attitude makes it worse. It’s always POOR LEEEEAAAAH, and has been since her 16&Pregs episode. She’s convinced that this world and everyone in it owes her something because of the shitty choices she made.
I don’t condone people making up rumors, but she and Jeremy get defensive any time a fan points out the truth…she’s a cheater, a liar, and a slut.
End rant.
hahahahaha the local QakerSteak this literally cracked me up!
Does anyone know what ” you’re about stupid means” lol I know this is coming from Leah who has her twins have a SET so they can BATH.
It just means ‘you’re an idiot.’ For some reason people in WV, NC and SC (I live in NC and work in SC/NC) seem to think this is a cool thing to say. Why? I don’t know.
damn I live in NC and have never heard that. lmao
We should road trip to Jenelle’s divorce hearing. LMAO!
hahah that would be hilarious
I live in NC too never heard of it.
She’s a HO. Not because she was with seven guys, but because we know 3 of those guys overlapped. So the other 4 probably did too.
Update: Leah named the new baby addalynn. Lol……..Good spelling there Leah *claps*
Oh please tell me you’re kidding. Clearly Leah didn’t get past A in the alphabet song. Probably too busy looking for the next boyfriend – even in preschool. Smh.
I like the name though. I was expecting something way worse honestly lol. But she could certainly stand to drop a few letters. The book Freakinomics has an excellent chapter about the names parents give their children and talked about the correlation between the spelling of a child’s name and it’s mother’s education level. Specifically they used the name Jasmine. The least educated spelled it like Jazzmyn or something ridiculous. The whole book was very interesting but that chapter specifically was great.
Emily (love your name, btw – it’s one of my favorites), I’ve got one for you…how do you think you pronounce this one?
L-A
No lie, this is a real name.
It’s ‘Ladasha’ and the reasoning? “Because the dash ain’t silent!” Yep, I’ve seen some weirdness.
UNCOOL.
When I was 16, I was an assistant at my dance studio for all the toddler dance classes. We used to have this little boy in one of my tap classes (who was just SOOOO CUTEEEE I couldn’t stand it!) who was named Shithead. Yep, you read that right. “Shu-theed”. Shithead.
My best friend taught dance to a little girl whose name was Hermajesty. Her siblings’ names = Hismajesty and Yourmajesty. No fucking kidding.
I went to highschool with a kid named Abetch. Pronounced a bitch. lol.
yes I’m so glad you’re all busting out the Dictionary of Fake Racist Names
Do regale us with more tales of people with names like Asshole, pronounced “Ashley”
Oh please. Give me a break. No one here brought up race except YOU. This clearly is not about race — look at the stupid fucking names Leah has come up with. Anyone can be ignorant enough to invent idiotic names.
Why don’t you put on your big girl panties & STFU.
Its a cute name although it should be spelled Adalyn; My daughters’ names all begin with A too, whats the problem with that?
Where’d you hear that was the baby’s name?
I feel like I have to pronounce it slow with that spelling … i like the name though
I don’t think the name is that terrible. And who knows maybe she’s trying to be like the Kardashians (all their names begin with K’s) lol.
As to Leah being a slut, whore, etc, when I was a teen I slept with a lot of guys. I also had a shitty self esteem so the more guys I slept with the better I felt. But it’s my past. I’ve been with the same guy for 5 years now and my life is pretty damn good. My problem with Leah is the fact that she cheated. That’s what makes her a shitty person!
And during my “slutty” years I never got knocked up. My mom made damn sure I knew what birth control and safe sex was all about. She also make sure I knew what would happen if I came home pregnant at 16. It wasn’t till I was almost 21, in the relationship I’m currently in now, that I got pregnant because I was stupid about remembering to take my pill. After my miscarriage I didn’t go running to get knocked up again (…….Leah…..). I changed my birth control and haven’t gotten pregnant since. At the end of the day it’s called being responsible which is another quality Leah lacks.
Lol it’s not that the name itself is so awful….but say alliannah, alleah, and addalyn all together. It’s a bit much, and the spelling Is ridiculous. Those kids are never going to get little license plates with their names on them
They are fond of nicknames, Addalynn’s will probably be Addie, which sounds somewhat similar to Ali. No wonder they call the other one Gracie.
What’s wrong with their names? Many people name their kids with the same first letter. My brother and I both have names that start with a “K” and the Duggar’s 19 kids all start with a “J.” Granted, I’m not a fan of the spellings Leah chose, but my name (Kathleen) is spelled the most common way and I always had a hard time finding something with my name on it.
What’s wrong with their names? Leah made them up. They may be actual names but she has butchered them to an almost unrecognizable form. Employers, and just about everyone else, will have a snap judgement when seeing a name like that on a job application. Who would purposely put their child at a disadvantage like that?! Ugh I can’t stand people who try to take a perfectly fine name and butcher the spelling to make it “unique.” eg. Jaiidenn, aydenn, etc. It just looks dumb and uneducated. Save your creativity for an art project.
I could not agree more with you JNV! Sure, the names are cute now but as an adult you really shouldn’t be going for ‘cute’, and a name is for life, not just childhood.
Not specifically to you, don’t feel like scrolling back down on my kindle. What’s wrong with different spellings? How many ways are there to speak Emily?? Emilee, Emmalee, Emmilee…etc. My best friend is Alyxis pronounced Alexis (the name of my other best friend, lol).
I know a girl named Sy’eisha…and another named Kyeisha. And a boy named Quean(key-on)…these kids always have their names mispronounced…and this is just the beginning of the names.
I hate my name because it’s so common, Emily. My brother is named Robert. My mom knows I have it, so she calls me Ophelia, after the Shakespeare character because she thinks it’s fun, and I like it
Her kid’s names are ridiculous, which I understant is the trend at the moment. What makes them even MORE ridiculous is that she is Leah and she named one Alleah. SHM.
Would it bother you less if she spelled it, Aaliyah?
Man that sounds like a drug.
Bahaha. I live in KY, and Addalynn/Adalynn/Addylynn/Adylynn/Adalin is about the most popular baby name among young white trash mothers. Not surprised.
It’s a hot name up here in WI as well with the young white trash mamas – although sometimes they go for “Addison”, but spelled in some “creative way” – such as “Addysen”.
Leah’s tweet says, ‘I have been with 7 guys’. I know most of the comments have been a reaction to this admission. However, maybe because I am older and have a 21 year old, it is the rest of her sentence that sticks out to me. She says ‘I have been with 7 guys, I feel bad enough for that.’ How many guys can you hook up with and not be a slut? Is 2 guys in one year acceptable? Does any number over 7 make you a tramp? Are you a whore if you have 6 boyfriends as a teen and sleep with 5 of them? I think what I am trying to say is that it does not really matter what the world classifies Leah as. What matters is that she admits she feels ‘bad enough’ about her decision to hook up with 7 guys. I think it is tragic that a 20 year old girl already sees herself as a slut.
I know people will argue that girls have a need for sex just as guys do. People will say girls are judged harshly for their number of partners. Guys are studs and girls are sluts. I am not here to argue about these facts. I am just trying to say that the number is not important, it is how that number makes you FEEL about yourself.
Leah knows she is immature, desperate and has slept with too many guys. The sad part it is she cannot/will not change her behaviour. She cannot help herself even though her actions hurt HER. She openly admits she is desperate to have a family. This is where I feel the need to speak out. I work with many teen moms. I have had numerous heart-breaking conversations with them. Often these talks occur while they are alone holding their newborn. Tears flow freely, baby daddy long gone and a sting is felt as reality slaps her in the face. Not every time, but all too often, I hear the same story.
The teen mom is often from a broken home, she rarely sees her dad and she is craving affection and unconditional love. Her home life is chaos and she feels like she is lost, like she does not matter. A boy comes along and tells her all the things she has been dying to hear. He fills that empty space where all her self-esteem is suppose to be. Sex means he loves her. Now she sees the answer, finally she will be a part of a real family. A baby is the answer to unconditional love. The three of them will be a family. Not bloody likely…
Young ladies must tell themselves that they have value. If they ache from a broken home, they must seek help to fill that hurt. Spend time with loved ones and friends who remind you that you are awesome. Treat yourself with respect so guys know what you expect. Build up your self-esteem with volunteer work and working hard in school. Get involved in sports. Do NOT rely on a boy to make you feel worthy. Know that you are special and priceless. If you feel like a slut, just stop, and turn it around. There are young ladies who post here who have completely changed their lives for the better. Let them inspire you! Okay my rant is over. I am risking backlash from you, but if one girl hears me, I can take the insults.
You’re right – the sad part is, it isn’t just teen moms who don’t know their worth. Women at any age can forget they are worth so much more than they think they are. But once that negative self talk starts, it’s really hard to put an end to it.
Exactly what I was trying to say but couldn’t put into words! Thank you, wonderful post.
Best commenter award Stevebeans, get on it and make sure this woman gets an enormous flower arrangement delivered to her workplace.
Your replies made me smile, thank-you! Just trying to share the knowledge I have gained and hope it helps even one teen. My post applies to teen boys as well.
Not only is she a whore, she’s a dumb whore. Great job Leah now we all know about the seven men you have slept with in the past 20 or so years.
In my opinion, 7 people is just ttoo many. I’m not a traditional person whatsoeve r. I’ve only had sex with one person and am now married to him and we still don’t have kids.. throughout high school all my friends would always talk about the new person they had sex with each weekend and that made me feel just skeevy.. forget about being a whore, she just does not respect herself one bit. And it’s such a shame to think that a person like that has now 3 lives that she is responsible for. I sincerely hope that they don’t grow up as desperate for love and affection as she is. I wish before they had kids, all these girls dare I say woman, thought about themselves before thinking of how great their boyfriend is gonna be and that they’re never going to leave them…newsflas, while it does happen, it’s rare. Having a child is not going to keep your man around. You’re essentially not only trying to trap him, but forever trapping yourself. Think about the things you can do while you’re still young. I will place bets that most of these girls will abandon their kidnext couple years because they want u@dis youth back, and guess what babe, your youth is gone. Please , enjoy your youth, travel, , party, ( just not in the sleeping around way!) and take care of yourself before you have to take care of a child.
Sorry for the rant and the all over the place-ness but that ‘s been brewing for a while!
Let’s just say it was beyond dumb for posting on a public forum how many guys she’s slept with. Face it, when has Leah ever made a calm rational decision that she’s debated for more than a day?
This is why I love this blog writer! Nothing is sugar coated. Why do people think they can get paid out of the ass for putting their lives on TV and not be judged? They could have stopped any time but they didn’t. Give me a break, your not struggling when your ass is wearing over $150 in Victoria Secret workout clothes! They wouldn’t have a twitter, let along respond to every hater if they didn’t want the attention. Your mad at what the person said you need to tell them and everyone else you hate them and are blocking them? Ya cause that’s not stooping down to their level or trying to get attention or anything.
thanks for bringing up Pink, I think they are a “secret” sponser of sorts thats why all the girls alway/only ware Victoria Secret
They are not wrong for defending their children. It’s hard enough on a couple to have a couple to lose a baby but to have someone claim it was an abortion has got to be just that much more painful. People don’t just have abortions willy nilly. Whoever said that is just being a jackass. as for 7 guys…it’s her vagina I guess.
Hayzii, aka L-A, I adore you! LMAO!
Thank you!
Aren’t we all so glad it’s poppin around here again?!
Leah is what’s wrong with the US education system. She brags about how much cash her husband makes yet wants to be with Corey living in a trailer? And like others, I thought she was a skank long before this number of 7 came out! Or was that 70?
High, high, ya all high must be Leah.
If you guys all think sleeping with only 7 people is being a “whore” “slut” ect. Seriously reevaluate your life and go get laid.
High, high, ya all high: WE GET IT, YOU’RE A WHORE TOO JUST LIKE LEAH.
Leah is not even 21 yet, of course she’s a whore. I feel very sorry for her daughters because they’ll grow up to be the same, whores.
Leah is a slut, not a whore. She also started young, she was 16 and pregnant remember? At that time, she was sleeping with Corey and Robbie. So, since she was with Corey from 16 on, and then with Robbie again, and then With Jeremy, since she was 16 she only was with 3 men. If she only had sex with those three guys off and on since she was 16, then she had to have had sex with 4 OTHER men before she was 16!!! That coupled with all the cheating makes her a big SLUTTY, SLUT, SLUT!!